(socially acceptable, non-crass approaches to ask chicks to sleep with you)
updated: March 17 2019 – haha – “Netflix and Chill” was initially our ‘idea’, but now it’s conventional!
While you both read Good Looking Loser if you are home on this Saturday night, it better be with your fuckbuddy half-naked next to you. We invested so many nights at home in my 20’s saturday. I be sorry too.
In the event that you can’t keep in touch with girls during the night, just head out to see when you can make eye contact (+ smile) with girls or get view other guys interact with random girls have a look at our program. Even although you do not say a term the complete time – it is better for your “game” than reading my disgraceful creepy weblog.
I did so a video clip (see below) and was not likely to perform a post with this ‘common sense’ subject but I made a decision it had been a good proven fact that everybody else see this.
Dudes that “research” sex/dating regarding the online often experience ‘information overload’ and literally freeze up in their interactions or do not know how to find away where in fact the girls appears.
They likewise have drawn in a lot of “game” disinformation that Good searching Loser is myself responsible for reversing.
I am sure you have seen those “Asking 100 Girls For Sex” or “Will You have intercourse beside me?” viral YouTube videos where a man asks 100 girls should they will sleep with him. Frequently he asks issue while the extremely initial thing he states.
As an example –
(never bother viewing these in full)
The girls see the camera, in some cases not in some cases. That does not really matter.
The outcome are exactly the same in most the videos –
>98% for the girls state “No.”
Here you will find the two ways –
Dining Table of Contents
0:00 The YouTube “social experiments” – what do they mean?
1:45 Verbal vs. physical screening (physical will ALWAYS get you further, faster)
4:15 “could you want to hook up for a glass or two ?” “Lets grab a drink tonight.”
(try not to recommend it’s a romantic date or coffee)
5:45 Logistical concerns – where guys that nail 50+ girls free redtube via cold approach live.
7:25 “Do you really want to come over and watch a film ?” “You should stop by and now we’ll watch a film .”
8:20 “Normal” dudes that Get Laid a great deal use each of these ALL THE TIME.
9:45 Stupid egghead rebuttal: “seeking rapport/asking concerns” is wrong.
11:20 A note on simply how much “game” actually matters.
12:00 that will be better? Spoken or physical material?
12:45 ways to get faster utilizing the stuff that is physical />15:00 utilize both: ask woman to meet for a glass or two, then her to come over for a movie/drink.
# 1 Offer to meet for a glass or two
(“You need to grab a drink tonight? Lets do this.”)
This idea, among guys that get yourself a complete large amount of pussy, may be the single many utilized line within the reputation for the world.
Every woman within the world (unless you REALLY seem like boyfriend product) knows this will be an invite for future intercourse.
It is the universal, polite, socially appropriate invite for intercourse.
As a potential boyfriend and withholds her pussy until you are emotionally invested so you don’t think she’s a slut if you are looking to Get Laid, this is a much better alternative than asking a girl to “dinner” so she starts looking at you.
Perhaps the minority of apprehensive girls that think “he’s probably just hoping to get me personally drunk”, will ironically completely allow you to do this – if they’re intimately available and DTF.
A lot of dudes are scared to utilize this idea given that it’s “overused” or “too normal”.
Which is absurd, the need to be creative/witty is just insecurity and social inexperience.
(I’ve been there, trust me)
Other people are afraid that girls will think “this person really wants to rape me”.
Emotionally healthy girls WILL NOT THAT that is THINK.
Simply trust me on this one too.
A DTF girl will maybe not ignore a courteous invite to obtain a drink with you – if she likes you.
I totally encourage one to use this proposition EACH TIME before taking a lady’s number.
#2 Offer to look at a Movie/Hangout (at your house)
(“Why don’t you visit and we’ll grab/watch a movie and hang out?” tonight)
If “grabbing a beverage” may be the no. 1 idea of all-time, “watch a movie/hangout” is #1b.
It may be number 1 really, this is just what everybody else who Gets Laid in university uses when they aren’t at parties.
(but it is usually the ‘after party’ pretense)
Such as the proposition that is prior girls realize “watch a movie” become an invite for intercourse (or at the least some kind of messing around).
The”watch a movie/hangout” proposition is socially acceptable, polite and not too forward like”getting a drink.
Possibly it really is apparent you are proposing to “watch a movie”, “pick up a film” (spend time) rather than “see a film” or “go to a film” (date).
Make that clear.
(it often is when you say “hangout”)
The invite is just a excuse that is socially acceptable your ex to come over and mess around – at ANY TIME.
On a more traditional date) you can use this pretense to get the girl to come over afterward if you are “getting a drink” with a girl (or find yourself.
All girls understand what it indicates.
Girls know this and certainly will come over looking way hotter than should they were just planning to watch a film.
A “movie/hangout” may be the universal socially appropriate method for getting a woman to come over, but these options are appropriate too –
Come over and then we’ll chill.
Come over and now we’ll earn some food and also have some drinks.
Come over and now we’ll simply chill within the hot spa.
Come over and we also’ll smoke weed.
Come over so we’ll do a little blow.
These pretenses are certainly not necessary once you’ve fucked the lady and this woman is your fuckbuddy (simply tell/ask her to come over) – but could be useful.
You do not need any kind of pretenses compared to those 2.
How/Why Does This “Work”!?
As the woman likes both you and wants to have sexual intercourse with you.
This woman is frequently just awaiting the opportunity to do so.
Ideally, the lady should KNOW ALREADY what you’re looking (sex, not a gf) for when she is met by you, however these propositions will keep no doubt.
Because of this that I don’t believe in garbage like “text game” or “working on” girls once you meet them. Even in the little instances where it might appear to get results, it’s scarcely efficient and it’s likely that – the lady ALREADY liked you.
The next occasion you need to communicate (verbally) you want to sleep with her and would like to understand where she appears – just suggest a “drink” or “movie/hangout”.
You will get your answer.
If you aren’t comfortable being physical with girls although I encourage, physical screening (a little goes a long way, especially during the day), this type of “verbal screening” is a nice way to get to the point.
(nevertheless – try to get more comfortable with it, spoken assessment won’t ever be as effective as real assessment + tiny talk)
Once per week, someone asks ways to get a woman to come over or wonders the way in which to step a”hang up out” instead of a romantic date.
Then that’s good news if this was common sense to you (therefore you should have ALREADY have experience using these pretenses at least 20-30 times.
It’s likely that – you’ve got already been Getting Laid and hopefully this tangled up some loose ends.
If it wasn’t good sense, at this point you have the perfect reply to –
Just What do i actually do to generally meet (rather than date) a woman?
This is certainly as simple you- she will jump at the chance to get a drink/movie and chill with you as it gets and when a girl likes.